Due to the historical understanding of the word crone,
not all women may be comfortable with this term, as it may suggest an image of
an old, withered and haggard woman. As
this sense of the word is not intended by the ritual, many may prefer to frame
the service differently or simply call it an Affirmation of Baptism.
preparation
Women who are participating in
the Croning ritual may choose to prepare themselves through fasting and/or
meditation prior to the service. This is certainly not mandatory but may add to
their experience of the ritual particularly if it is followed by a festive
meal.
The worship space
should be prepared. Seating should be reserved to accommodate any or all the
following:
- Those making affirmation of their
baptism
- Wise Women of the community who are
honored guests
- Friends and family who will offer
their memories as a part of the ritual
- Worship leaders which may include a
presiding minister, liturgical director, lector and acolyte.
The altar or
overall space may be decorated with memorable objects that symbolize important
points in the participants’ lives. They may be organized by decade or around
major life events. Planners are encouraged to create an atmosphere of
abundance. Flowers, greenery, shells, seasonal fruits and vegetables, grains,
nuts – all may be used to decorate the altar and worship area.
The font should
have central place. If this is not possible, planners are encouraged to create
a temporary font which can be seen by all during the ritual. Water is central
to the celebration and remembrance of baptism. The sound and the feel of water
should be remembered by those who participate. An ewer or pitcher should be
filled and placed at the font.
GATHERING
Welcome
Since it is likely that members
of the assembly will be unfamiliar with this type of ritual, it will be helpful
for the presiding minister to offer a few brief comments of welcome and
introduction. Issues of hospitality such as childcare, location of facilities
and use of electronics may be included in the welcome or in a printed bulletin.
CONFESSION
AND FORGIVENESS
All may make the sign of the
cross, a sign of Baptism and grace.
L Blessed
be the holy Trinity, ☩ one God, who forgives all our sin, whose
mercy endures forever.
C Amen
The presiding minister may lead
the gathering in this preparation prayer.
L God
of all wisdom, you know us inside and out.
You knit us together in our mothers’ wombs long before we took our first
breaths. You have seen our missteps and our successes and in all things, you
have loved us. Cleanse our hearts, our minds and our spirits that we may love
you more fully and serve you in all that we say and do.
C Amen
The following or another
confession may be prayed.
L Let us confess our sin in the presence of God
and of one another.
The assembly kneels or
stands. Silence is kept for reflection.
L Gracious
God,
C have
mercy on us. We confess that we have turned from you and followed our own will.
We have sinned against you, but we are truly sorry and humbly repent. In your great kindness, forgive us our sins,
known and unknown, things we have done and things we have left undone. Turn us again to you, so that our lives might
show the power of your grace. Amen
The presiding minister announces God’s
forgiveness with these or similar words.
L God, whose mercy is never-ending, loved us
even when were dead in sin and made us alive in Christ. By grace you have been
saved. In the name of ☩ Jesus Christ, your sins
are forgiven. May the power of the Holy Spirit strengthen you, that Christ
might dwell in your heart and mind and soul.
C Amen
The assembly stands.
Gathering
Song
Having a musician lead the
assembly’s song is always preferred. However, if that is not possible, planners
should choose music which will be familiar and identify someone who can lead
the singing prior to the event.
Suggested Songs for use in the
ritual. ELW: Evangelical Lutheran Worship; WOV: With One Voice
All Are Welcome,
ELW 641
Baptized in
Water, ELW 456
Bind Us Together,
WOV 758
Borning Cry, WOV
ELW 742
For All the
Faithful Women, WOV 692
For All the Faithful
Women, ELW 419
God is Here, ELW
526
O Blessed Spring,
WOV 447
Take Oh, Take Me
As I Am, ELW 814
Waterlife, ELW
457
Baptismal Hymns, ELW 209–217, 442–459
L God be with you.
C And
also with you.
The following prayer or another prayer for the day is
used.
L Let us pray.
God of
the beginning and of the end, you are the source of holy wisdom, and the
fountain of all truth. We give you thanks for the wise women among us, especially… We have been enriched by their wisdom and
seasoning. We are touched by their knowledge and faith. Bless them, O God, as
they are a blessing to us. Pour out your Spirit, that all our elders may
continue to dream dreams and bear witness to the light they know in Jesus
Christ. And may each of us be inspired to lead lives of service and
faithfulness.
C Amen
ENCOUNTERING
THE WORD
As this is a
specifically Christian ritual, one or more readings from the Bible should be
read. These readings may be chosen by those who are affirming their
baptism. They should be encouraged to
select readings which particularly speak to their faith journey. If a psalm is chosen, worship planners are
encouraged to involve the gathered assembly through word, chant or song. Some
suggested texts are:
Psalm
23 The
Lord is my shepherd
Psalm
27 The Lord is my
light and salvation
Psalm 46 God is our refuge and strength
Psalm
71 The Lord will
revive me
Psalm
90 Our dwelling place in all generations
Psalm
121 I lift up my eyes to the hills
Proverbs 8 Wisdom’s
call
Ecclesiastes
3:1-8 For everything there is a season
Romans
5:1-5 Justification by faith gives peace
Romans
14:7-8 We do not live to ourselves
Philippians
3:12-16 Pressing on to the goal
The readings may be
announced:
A reading from __________
The reading may be
concluded:
Word of God, word of life.
The assembly responds:
Thanks be
to God.
GOSPEL ACCLAMATION
The assembly is invited to stand for the proclamation of
the Gospel. The person giving the
proclamation may choose to process to a place central in the assembly. An Alleluia
or Lenten verse may be sung prior to the reading.
THE GOSPEL
Some suggested gospel readings include
those listed, however worship planners are encouraged to work with those
affirming their baptism to choose readings which are reflective of their faith
and which create a cohesive gospel message for the day.
Matthew 6:25-34
Do not be anxious
Luke 12:6-7 The
hairs of your head are all counted
John 3:16-21 For
God so loved the world
John 14:1-3 I
prepare a place for you
John 15:7-11 Abide
in my love
The gospel is
announced:
The Gospel according to _________
Glory to
you, O Lord.
The gospel concludes:
The gospel of the Lord.
Praise to
you, O Christ.
HOMILY
A homily may be offered. The homily should be brief and
can help to frame other readings and remembrances offered during the Croning
ritual.
SONG OF THE
DAY
Worship planners are encouraged to choose a song which
speaks to the scriptural texts that have been chosen or to the affirmation of
baptism. There is wisdom in making effective use of hymn concordances found
online or in print.
SHARING
OUR STORY
This section of the liturgy moves the focus more directly
onto the persons affirming their baptism. It is a time to bear witness to the
gifts of faith and wisdom that have been shared by individuals. Some
possibilities for directing this portion of the ritual would be:
1.
Celebration of the Decades: Invite someone from each decade of the
person’s life to give a brief reflection.
These should be limited in time, 1 to 3 minutes at most. If this model is chosen, worship planners
should keep the overall service length in mind.
2.
Her Story: Those women affirming their baptism reflect on what the
ritual means to them. How do they
envision themselves within the role of wise woman?
3.
Voices of Wisdom: Worship planners may invite elders from the
assembly to share readings. Possible
readings are found in Appendix 1.
SONG OR SPECIAL MUSIC
An assembly song or special music may be offered. At this time those affirming their baptism
should move to the area of the font.
AFFIRMATION OF BAPTISM
The presiding minister
addresses the assembly.
Joined to Christ in the waters of baptism,
we are clothed with God's mercy and forgiveness.
Let us give thanks for the gift of baptism.
Water may be poured into the font as the
presiding minister gives thanks.
We give you thanks, O God,
for in the beginning your Spirit moved over the waters
and by your Word you created the world,
calling forth life in which you took delight.
When you led Israel from slavery and through the waters of
the Red Sea,
your prophet Miriam rejoiced in song and dance for the
freedom that you gave to her people.
Through the waters of birth, your Son was born of Mary
to be Immanuel, God with us.
Throughout his life, Jesus made water to be a sign of new
life.
He promised the Samaritan woman at the well,
a spring of living water that would well up within her to
eternal life.
And when a woman soothed his tired feet with her tears,
Jesus honored her gift of love and proclaimed her
faithfulness.
We praise you for the gift of water that sustains our lives
in so many ways.
Above all we praise you for the gift of new life through our
baptism in Jesus Christ.
Shower us with your Spirit, and renew our lives with your
forgiveness, grace, and love.
Amen
Presentation
The leader addresses the
assembly with these or similar words.
Dear friends, we give thanks for the gift of baptism and for
these women, who are making public affirmation of their
baptism.
Those making affirmation may
be presented by a friend or family member with these or other words:
I present name/s
who desire to make public affirmation of their baptism.
The presiding minister may
continue with prayer.
Let us pray.
Merciful God, we thank you for these sisters,
whom you have made your own by water and the Word in
baptism.
We have been graced by their
wisdom and seasoning.
We are touched by their
knowledge and faith.
Pour out your Spirit upon them, that they may continue to
dream dreams
and live lives that speak of your grace and saving power.
Uphold them in the
gifts and promises of baptism,
and unite the hearts of all whom you have brought to new
birth.
We ask this in the name of Christ.
Amen
Profession of Faith
The presiding minister addresses those making
public affirmation of baptism. The assembly may stand and join in the
responses.
Do you believe in God the Father?
I believe in God, the Father almighty,
creator of heaven and
earth.
Do you believe in Jesus Christ,
the Son of God?
I believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord,
who was conceived by the
Holy Spirit,
born of the virgin Mary,
suffered under Pontius
Pilate,
was crucified, died, and
was buried;
he descended to the
dead.*
On the third day he rose
again;
he ascended into heaven,
he is seated at the right
hand of the Father,
and he will come to judge
the living and the dead.
Do you believe in God the Holy
Spirit?
I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the holy catholic church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the
body,
and the life everlasting.
Affirmation
The presiding minister addresses those making
public affirmation of baptism.
You have made public profession of your faith. Do you intend
to continue in the covenant God made with you in holy baptism:
to live among God’s faithful people,
to hear the word of God and share
in the Lord’s supper,
to proclaim the good news of God
in Christ through word and deed,
to serve all people, following
the example of Jesus,
and to strive for justice and
peace in all the earth?
Each person responds:
I do, and I ask God to help and guide me.
The minister addresses the
assembly.
Let us pray.
We give you thanks, O God, that through water and the Holy
Spirit you give us new birth, cleanse us from sin, and raise us to eternal
life.
The blessing may be repeated
for each person. The minister may lay both hands on the head of the person and
say:
Stir up in name the gift of your Holy
Spirit: the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and
might, the spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord, the spirit of joy in
your presence, both now and forever.
Amen.
OR
Father in heaven, for Jesus’ sake, stir up in name the
gift of your Holy Spirit; confirm her faith, guide her life,
empower her in her serving, give her patience in
suffering, and bring her to everlasting life.
Amen.
Those making public
affirmation stand and face the assembly. A representative of the congregation may
address the assembly with these or other words.
Let us rejoice with these sisters in Christ.
We rejoice with you in the life of baptism.
Together we will give thanks and praise to God
and proclaim the good news to all the world.
Those who have affirmed their faith may be
presented with a reminder of the ritual.
Some possibilities include:
· Baptismal or water symbols
such as shells, sea glass, candles or artwork.
· Symbols of wisdom or
initiation such as a staff, garland, crown of flowers, a cloak or shawl.
· Shroud or kittel. A kittel
is a traditional Jewish garment worn by a male at ceremonies marking life
changes, at Passover, Yom Kippur finally at his burial. Some Jewish croning ceremonies include the
presentation of a kittel. The idea is similar to the notion of the Christian
funeral pall reflecting the baptismal garment.
CLOSING SONG
BLESSING AND
SENDING
May the God
of all graciousness guide you day by day, giving you what is needed.
May you
always travel with the one who is + the way, the truth, and the life.
May the
Spirit give you good companions to cheer your way
and a clear vision of that which God is calling you to
do.
Amen
Portions of this service are from the Evangelical Lutheran Book of Worship. Augsburg Fortress.
The Water Prayer was written by Heidi Rodrick-Schnaath.